If it really were common sense, wouldn't everyone use it?
We will now be referring to "it" as uncommon sense!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Christmas....

As we take down all of our Christmas decorations, I wanted to take a moment and remember how wonderful this Christmas was! There were three weddings since last Christmas so our family grew. It is a wonderful thing the way that love grows right along with the additions to a family, so that we never run out.

As always, we started our Christmas Eve traditions with Chad sharing the story of the first Christmas. The incite that the kids bring grows each year and I always look forward to what they are going to say about that special story of the birth of the Christ child.





Then for fun we always read "The Night Before Christmas". Why it captivates us year after year is something I'm not even going to mess with!




In past years the kids would exchange gifts, but this year they got Christmas pajamas from mom and dad. Its something we started last year with the Polar Express, that I think is now to be an established tradition.









Christmas morning we wake the kids up (yes I know totally reverse of everyone else's house...). Take the picture of everyone waiting in the hall, and then let the shower of paper begin. There is screaming and "Thank You's" when the dust settles, everyone is happy ( I know, a small miracle!) And we get ready for round two...

Out the door we go and off to Gilbert. (sing with me)"Through the construction and down the road to Grammy and Umpa's we go..."

We arrive. Hug and visit. Then, have a wonderful breakfast with the highly acclaimed, CREAM CHEESE ROLL-UPS. If you don't know what that is, my friend, you live a deprived existence!

We organize the gifts and then, from youngest to oldest, it begins again. Now some think this has changed over the years, but its pretty consistent. A little twist that isn't to every one's benefit, sorry Tara and Riley, is that the spouses are stuck with their Roussel counterpart's age to determine their order of unveiling....

We love to see others faces as they are opening gifts picked out just for them. That is definitely one of the highlights for me anyways...


Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!!!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Twelve Days of Christmas...

This is one of my new favorite Christmas Medleys!

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

The Christmas Tree Nazi....

( NOTE: Not a personal account, but I didn't want my
children to write a version of this in the future!)
"My mother is The Christmas Tree Nazi. Where most families decorate the Christmas tree as a family, my mom does not like anybody decorating the tree other than herself. As a kid I would decorate the Christmas tree and then my mother would say:
"Oh Baby that looks nice. You did a wonderful job. But you know if you just move this piece here and this piece there...."
And before you know it the whole tree would be rearranged as mom saw fit. It was disheartening. My poor little feelings would be hurt. Now I don't even try to decorate the tree. I have learned that there is no hope that I will ever decorate another Christmas tree as long as I am at home with my mother. It's just not possible.
We (well my mom) just managed to decorate the tree tonight even though the tree has been up for a couple of weeks. And what can I say, she stayed true to form. She put the kids to be, begin to decorate the tree, and didn't ask for my help until she needed me to fill in some holes on the side and the back of the tree. You know the areas where no one is going to look.
Yep. That's my mom. The Christmas Tree Nazi."


I read this and decided that I needed to relinquish my throne. The kids are having a blast, and they definitely have some of my obsessive tendencies. Our tree is looking better than it ever has!






Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Thankful



Week before Thanksgiving,
I limp around real strange.
Huddle in the corner,
As though I have the mange.
All the other turkeys,
Just gobble, gobble on.
I'm silent, and I act
As if my gobbler's gone.

Everyone is thankful
On Thanksgiving Day.
Friday it's forgotten.
You all go on your way.
I know what thankful is
So listen when I say.
"It's great to be a turkey,
After Thanksgiving Day."
Unknown

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Ashley's "Day Off"



To have preschool four days a week, we enrolled Ashley in two separate programs. One through Parks and Rec. and the other is a private preschool. The Parks and Rec preschool takes a ridiculously long break from before Thanksgiving until after the New Year, so for the next month+ Ashley doesn't have a set schedule Monday or Wednesday.



(Stage Set)



Picture: Sunday evening, Ashley sitting on the recliner - legs up on the arm...



"Mom," she says with an exaggerated sigh,



"I am so excited to have a day off tomorrow with you!"

Is this what she thinks we're going to do?





Tuesday, November 18, 2008

The best boy...

Wesley was sitting at the table last night working on his homework while Chad and I were finishing dinner. Out of nowhere Wesley looked up and told Chad, "I'm so glad mom picked you instead of some other boy, because you're the funniest!"

Monday, November 10, 2008

Halloween

We're off to see the Wizard!


Allen was a perfect Tin Man. Wesley was a great Scarecrow. Madison was made for the Role of the Cowerdly Lion, and Ashley pulled off Dorthy like no one else!


First stop Mrs Feerick's house.


On to the heart of the trick or treating with Deni as Glenda the Good witch, Blair as the Wicked witch of the west, and Chad, Pam, and I as the Lollipop Guild. Madison and Deni really got into the candy collection this year - running from house to house, sampling the goods, it was a blast!

The Kids looked AWESOME. I know I'm going to miss the themed Halloweens but I promised the kids they could pick anything they wanted next year and that they didn't have to have a theme.

The end of the night...one more picture before the sugar feast!

Dance-Mania and people's weird questions

"No they are not twins...Yes they are sisters...Yes they are both mine..."you get the idea!

The girls are in the same dance class this semester and loving it. They have this crazy teacher named "Mr. Rogers" (totally his real name) who plays games and teaches them all kinds of fun things. But you would be a little appalled at some of the questions I field each week. I just have to remind myself that I live in Tucson and people are different here!

The Pumpkin Patch

I know I'm behind, but our Computer is having issues, therefor I am having issues. When there are that many issues, nothing gets done!


More importantly...we took our yearly trip to Buck-a-lew pumpkin farm with Deni and Blair this year and had a blast! Everyone got a pumpkin and plenty of dirt ( Why do I always wear a white shirt to the pumpkin patch?)



Madison and Deni on the drive out!





All five of our animals!

Sunday, November 2, 2008

"Fear is the Antithisis of Faith"

I know that I am not alone in expressing my fear for the coming days, but this statement, just a few words, has calmed my troubled heart. If we are doing what we know we are supposed to, we have no need to fear. That doesn't mean that it won't be hard, it just means we will have the comforter with us. I am reminded each day how blessed I am to be a member of the church. I am so grateful for the peace I feel.




"Fear is the Antithisis of Faith"

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Would the Last Honest Reporter Please Turn On the Lights?

By Orson Scott Card

Editor's note: Orson Scott Card is a Democrat and a newspaper columnist, and in this opinion piece he takes on both while lamenting the current state of journalism.

An open letter to the local daily paper — almost every local daily paper in America:

I remember reading All the President's Men and thinking: That's journalism. You do what it takes to get the truth and you lay it before the public, because the public has a right to know.

This housing crisis didn't come out of nowhere. It was not a vague emanation of the evil Bush administration.

It was a direct result of the political decision, back in the late 1990s, to loosen the rules of lending so that home loans would be more accessible to poor people. Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac were authorized to approve risky loans.

What is a risky loan? It's a loan that the recipient is likely not to be able to repay.

The goal of this rule change was to help the poor — which especially would help members of minority groups. But how does it help these people to give them a loan that they can't repay? They get into a house, yes, but when they can't make the payments, they lose the house — along with their credit rating.

They end up worse off than before.

This was completely foreseeable and in fact many people did foresee it. One political party, in Congress and in the executive branch, tried repeatedly to tighten up the rules. The other party blocked every such attempt and tried to loosen them.

Furthermore, Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae were making political contributions to the very members of Congress who were allowing them to make irresponsible loans. (Though why quasi-federal agencies were allowed to do so baffles me. It's as if the Pentagon were allowed to contribute to the political campaigns of Congressmen who support increasing their budget.)

Isn't there a story here? Doesn't journalism require that you who produce our daily paper tell the truth about who brought us to a position where the only way to keep confidence in our economy was a $700 billion bailout? Aren't you supposed to follow the money and see which politicians were benefiting personally from the deregulation of mortgage lending?

I have no doubt that if these facts had pointed to the Republican Party or to John McCain as the guilty parties, you would be treating it as a vast scandal. "Housing-gate," no doubt. Or "Fannie-gate."

Instead, it was Senator Christopher Dodd and Congressman Barney Frank, both Democrats, who denied that there were any problems, who refused Bush administration requests to set up a regulatory agency to watch over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, and who were still pushing for these agencies to go even further in promoting sub-prime mortgage loans almost up to the minute they failed.

As Thomas Sowell points out in a TownHall.com essay entitled "Do Facts Matter?" ( http://snipurl.com/457townhall_com] ): "Alan Greenspan warned them four years ago. So did the Chairman of the Council of Economic Advisers to the President. So did Bush's Secretary of the Treasury."

These are facts. This financial crisis was completely preventable. The party that blocked any attempt to prevent it was ... the Democratic Party. The party that tried to prevent it was ... the Republican Party.

Yet when Nancy Pelosi accused the Bush administration and Republican deregulation of causing the crisis, you in the press did not hold her to account for her lie. Instead, you criticized Republicans who took offense at this lie and refused to vote for the bailout!

What? It's not the liar, but the victims of the lie who are to blame?

Now let's follow the money ... right to the presidential candidate who is the number-two recipient of campaign contributions from Fannie Mae.

And after Freddie Raines, the CEO of Fannie Mae who made $90 million while running it into the ground, was fired for his incompetence, one presidential candidate's campaign actually consulted him for advice on housing.

If that presidential candidate had been John McCain, you would have called it a major scandal and we would be getting stories in your paper every day about how incompetent and corrupt he was.

But instead, that candidate was Barack Obama, and so you have buried this story, and when the McCain campaign dared to call Raines an "adviser" to the Obama campaign — because that campaign had sought his advice — you actually let Obama's people get away with accusing McCain of lying, merely because Raines wasn't listed as an official adviser to the Obama campaign.

You would never tolerate such weasely nit-picking from a Republican.

If you who produce our local daily paper actually had any principles, you would be pounding this story, because the prosperity of all Americans was put at risk by the foolish, short-sighted, politically selfish, and possibly corrupt actions of leading Democrats, including Obama.

If you who produce our local daily paper had any personal honor, you would find it unbearable to let the American people believe that somehow Republicans were to blame for this crisis.

There are precedents. Even though President Bush and his administration never said that Iraq sponsored or was linked to 9/11, you could not stand the fact that Americans had that misapprehension — so you pounded us with the fact that there was no such link. (Along the way, you created the false impression that Bush had lied to them and said that there was a connection.)

If you had any principles, then surely right now, when the American people are set to blame President Bush and John McCain for a crisis they tried to prevent, and are actually shifting to approve of Barack Obama because of a crisis he helped cause, you would be laboring at least as hard to correct that false impression.

Your job, as journalists, is to tell the truth. That's what you claim you do, when you accept people's money to buy or subscribe to your paper.

But right now, you are consenting to or actively promoting a big fat lie — that the housing crisis should somehow be blamed on Bush, McCain, and the Republicans. You have trained the American people to blame everything bad — even bad weather — on Bush, and they are responding as you have taught them to.

If you had any personal honor, each reporter and editor would be insisting on telling the truth — even if it hurts the election chances of your favorite candidate.

Because that's what honorable people do. Honest people tell the truth even when they don't like the probable consequences. That's what honesty means . That's how trust is earned.

Barack Obama is just another politician, and not a very wise one. He has revealed his ignorance and naivete time after time — and you have swept it under the rug, treated it as nothing.

Meanwhile, you have participated in the borking of Sarah Palin, reporting savage attacks on her for the pregnancy of her unmarried daughter — while you ignored the story of John Edwards's own adultery for many months.

So I ask you now: Do you have any standards at all? Do you even know what honesty means?

Is getting people to vote for Barack Obama so important that you will throw away everything that journalism is supposed to stand for?

You might want to remember the way the National Organization of Women threw away their integrity by supporting Bill Clinton despite his well-known pattern of sexual exploitation of powerless women. Who listens to NOW anymore? We know they stand for nothing; they have no principles.

That's where you are right now.

It's not too late. You know that if the situation were reversed, and the truth would damage McCain and help Obama, you would be moving heaven and earth to get the true story out there.

If you want to redeem your honor, you will swallow hard and make a list of all the stories you would print if it were McCain who had been getting money from Fannie Mae, McCain whose campaign had consulted with its discredited former CEO, McCain who had voted against tightening its lending practices.

Then you will print them, even though every one of those true stories will point the finger of blame at the reckless Democratic Party, which put our nation's prosperity at risk so they could feel good about helping the poor, and lay a fair share of the blame at Obama's door.

You will also tell the truth about John McCain: that he tried, as a Senator, to do what it took to prevent this crisis. You will tell the truth about President Bush: that his administration tried more than once to get Congress to regulate lending in a responsible way.

This was a Congress-caused crisis, beginning during the Clinton administration, with Democrats leading the way into the crisis and blocking every effort to get out of it in a timely fashion.

If you at our local daily newspaper continue to let Americans believe — and vote as if — President Bush and the Republicans caused the crisis, then you are joining in that lie.

If you do not tell the truth about the Democrats — including Barack Obama — and do so with the same energy you would use if the miscreants were Republicans — then you are not journalists by any standard.

You're just the public relations machine of the Democratic Party, and it's time you were all fired and real journalists brought in, so that we can actually have a news paper in our city.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Gathering Leaves

We were crumpling up paper to fill our leaf bag spider, and it got me thinking about changing leaves ( our leaves are still green and firmly attached to our trees - they usually come off sometime in January!) You can never go wrong with Frost!



Gathering Leaves
by Robert Frost

Spades take up leaves


No better than spoons,


And bags full of leaves


Are light as balloons.



I make a great noise


Of rustling all day


Like rabbit and deer


Running away.



But the mountains I raise


Elude my embrace,


Flowing over my arms


And into my face.



I may load and unload


Again and again


Till I fill the whole shed,


And what have I then?



Next to nothing for weight,


And since they grew duller


From contact with earth,


Next to nothing for color.



Next to nothing for use.


But a crop is a crop,


And who's to say where


The harvest shall stop?

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

We've already had our ER visit this year!

We were on our way out the door this morning, when the screaming began.... Ashley and Madison both wanted to get to the car first, so Madison grabbed Ashley's backpack trying to slow her down, and instead Ashley fell and hit her head on the bench in front of the window. So we dropped the boys off at school and off we went to TMC's Children's ER. No stitches (YEAH!) Just Derma-bond, pretty much the same thing that comes in the Liquid Band-aid box only with a hospital price-tag! Gotta love the health-care system! So she's totally okay, and mostly just sad that she missed preschool.

I wonder though, does this mean that we don't have to go to the hosptal at all next year?

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Just One More then I'll stop...maybe!

The Presidential election was too close to call. Neither the Republican candidate nor the Democratic candidate had enough votes to win. There was much talk about ballot recounting, court challenges, etc., but a week-long ice fishing competition seemed the sportsmanlike way to settle things. The candidate that caught the most fish at the end of the week would win the election.Therefore, it was decided that there should be an ice fishing contest between the two candidates to determine the winner.After much of back and forth discussion, it was decided that the contest take place on a remote frozen lake in northern Minnesota .There were to be no observers present, and both men were to be sent out separately on this isolated lake and return at 5 P.M. with their catch for counting and verification by a team of neutral parties. At the end of the first day, John Mc. returned to the starting line and he had ten fish.Soon, Obama returned and had no fish. Well, everyone assumed he was just having another 'bad hair' day or something and hopefully, he would catch up the next day.At the end of the 2nd day John Mc. came in with 20 fish and Obama came in again with none.That evening, Harry Reid got together secretly with Obama and said, 'Obama, I think John Mc. is a low-life, cheatin' son-of-a-gun. I want you to go out tomorrow and don't even bother with fishing. Just spy on him and see just how he is cheating.'The next night (after John Mc. returns with 50 fish), said to Obama, 'Well, tell me, how is John Mc. cheating?'Obama replied, 'Harry, you're not going to believe this, but he's cutting holes in the ice.'Experience Counts

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Election humor!


There are less than two months until the election, an election that will decide the next President of the United States . The person elected will be the president of all Americans, not just the Democrats, or the Republicans. To show our solidarity as Americans, let's all get together and show each other our support for the candidate of our choice. It's time that we all came together, Democrats and Republicans alike. If you support the policies and character of John McCain, please drive with your headlights on during the day. If you support Obama, please drive with your headlights off at night. Thank you for your participation in this patriotic endeavor!

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Happy Birthday Ashley and Madison!



I can't believe my babies are 3 and 4! I just brought Ashley home from the hospital and now she is in Pre-school! How did that happen?
And Madison was my heart stopper with her delivery issues and her time in Nicu and now she just tells you how she wants it and makes sure that is the way things happen!
I think Ashley's reaction was something to the effect of
" what is that and why is it here?"
The day we brought Madison home from the Hospital...yeah there wasn't much difference in their size then. It's no wonder that Madison passed Ashley a while ago!

Cleaning and scrubbing can wait for tomorrow,
For babies grow up, I've learned, to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust, go to sleep.
I'm rocking my baby, and babies don't keep.
(Ruth Hulburt Hamilton)
"Even if the water balloons are gone, there's still water in here mom!"
At any rate, I don't know what I would do without my sweet Princess of Pink and Princess of Purple. They have both been able to roll an adventurous and fearless attitude with a girly charm into two amazing packages. I love you Ashley with all of your strong will and fiestiness! I love you Madison with all of your patience and observance for detail. This will definitely be a magical birthday!

The End...

So I was so upset that I didn't have any pictures of the end of the waterballon fight...! Carolina sent me the cutest pictures, including the my favorite ones of Madison and Christian. I'll let you see and guess which ones they might be!

Friday, August 22, 2008

Let's Party!

We got together with the Jensen's before they left for their
roadtrip and just had a blast!

Before...
During...

Oh I wish we had an after picture! Believe me it was good!

What an amazing family.
Our camera had issues that day, but at least we got a couple of pictures!

Time keeps on slipping...


I'm behind...I KNOW! Getting 3 ready for school is exponentially more difficult than two. Why I don't know. It's not as if I have never been shopping before. I actually enjoy it every chance I get! The thrill of the deal, gotta love it. Anyways, I decided I would try and do a little recap ( in segments of course) of the end of summer and the start of a new school year; just to let everyone know we didn't fall into Tucson's black hole! So "Hi" everyone!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Good?bye...

Why is it "Good" bye? Real goodbyes, the ones that say, 'it will be a while or maybe forever before I see you again,' aren't ever that great. I guess if we are looking at the parting itself as separating on good terms, then it makes an inkling of sense, but otherwise it is just another of those English juxtapositions.

The hardest part of any friendship is when it is time to say goodbye. As much as we might like things to stay the same, change is an inevitable part of life. There is a secret that only real friends know and it is this. All the mountains and valleys in the world cannot separate friends whose hearts are as one.

Allen woke up this morning crying (that was all it took for me to start as well) because he knew that our friends had left and were on their way to Oklahoma. As members of the church we are so blessed with an instant ward family wherever we move to, but there are times when you meet a family that you just click with. It is that kind of friendship that is so hard to see move away. However, it is that kind of friendship that you know won't dissipate with a change in zip code. We miss you already Jensen Family!

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Sweet Land of Liberty!

We gather ‘round to celebrate

On Independence Day

Pay homage to our country

As the children run and play.


With barbecues and picnics

And fireworks in the air

The flag we own is proudly flown

To show how much we care.


The stars and stripes spell freedom

She waves upon the breeze

While bursts of colors can be seen

Above the towering trees.


This is all quite wonderful

We revel in delight

But God above in divine love

Has brought this day to light.


With just a stroke of liberty

A touch of His great hand

He gave democracy to us

And helped this country stand.


The stripes upon our stately flag

Were touched by His sweet grace

Each star of white that shines so bright

Reflects His loving face.


So as you turn to face the flag

For battles that were fought

Be filled with pride for those who died

And freedoms that were bought.


But don’t forget to thank the One

That gives the bright display

The reason why we paint the sky

On Independence Day


Happy Independence Day!

Monday, June 23, 2008

Love and Marriage


Congratulations!!!!

Thursday, June 19, 2008

What time is it?...SUMMERTIME!

It wouldn't be summertime at the Pena house without swimming lessons!




The kids look forward to their pool time and it is a great
bargaining chip if their chores aren't getting done!


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